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Travis F W

travisfw@sfba.club

Joined 9 months ago

Nonfiction audio is my main thing. Autobiographies, parenting, science, social issues, and some business or anything educational.

I consider nonfiction to be a healthier and more useful view of the world than the news.

I have a few Mastodon accounts, like @travisfw@fosstodon.org

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Jen Lumanlan: Parenting Beyond Power (2023, Sasquatch Books) 4 stars

Research-based parenting educator Jen Lumanlan provides a simple yet revolutionary framework for rethinking our relationship …

I wish I could give Lumanlan more stars, but with one kid and seemingly little direct input from families with many, I found a whole lot of distance between my daily challenges and the narrative. In my experience 2 kids is a different category of parenting than an only child. I got a vasectomy for my very survival. And I must say, you will not find a book on parenting written by an author with three kids close in age. Such is flatly impossible. But with that significant caveat, Jen Lumanlan's experience and research IS extensive and deep and as an expression of strife for a better future for humanity, I wholeheartedly commend this book as a necessary voice in the conversation about what parenting can be, and how we can side step some of the intergenerational trauma that is so ubiquitous that it is most often invisible within us.

Jonathan Haidt: The Happiness Hypothesis (Hardcover, 2005, Basic Books) 4 stars

Applies the latest findings in psychology and brain research to the wisdom of the ancients …

Good book exploring the metaphor of an elephant and rider, acknowledging that we are not in full control, nor even very much in control, of our bodies and lives, and why happiness evades us. Haidt's breadth of research includes modern religious texts, and I find it refreshing to see an academic speaking to world culture instead of just his immediate peers.

Amanda Ripley: High Conflict (AudiobookFormat, Simon & Schuster Audio) No rating

Ripley begins by untroducing a new definition for the term "high conflict" and contrasting it with "good conflict".

So now I know the rest of the book will be written with the agenda of illustrating usage of the term. Fucking authors. Oh well, even if their usage of language is bullshit, Ripley probably has good insights.