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Phil in SF

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aka @kingrat@sfba.social. I'm following a lot of bookwyrm accounts, since that seems to be the only way to get reviews from larger servers to this small server. I make a lot of Bookwyrm lists. I will like & boost a lot of reviews that come across my feed. I will follow most bookwyrm accounts back if they review & comment. Social reading should be social.

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Daniel Simons, Christopher Chabris: Nobody's Fool (AudiobookFormat, 2023, Hachette Audio)

Two New York Times-bestselling psychologists explain the science of cons—and how we can avoid them. …

Interesting

Lot's of interesting pop psychology on why people fall for scams. There's lots of techniques that scammers can use to prime people for scams. For example, that most people don't want to be the impolite person who asks hard questions especially in front of others.

As for what we can do about it, most of the sections have a technique or two designed to slow down a person's slide into the scam. However, they're all variations on "be vigilant enough to think about X". For example, "ask yourself why an offer is being made to you." The techniques will work best for someone who is already cranky and vigilant like me, and probably less so without training for others. And I really really wish all these techniques were put together in one section at the end, to provide a coherent overall thinking process.

But it's still pretty interesting.

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John McWhorter: Pronoun Trouble (Hardcover, 2025, Avery Publishing Group)

But not for me

Engaging writing, interesting subject, well-documented. On paper, this history of pronouns across time and languages should have been a perfect read for me, but it left me flat.

The author travels through history to gauge the evolution of modern pronouns, showing that their usage (and quantity) are different across tongues, including English itself and languages both adjacent and distant.

"They" is saved for the last chapter; the singular "they" brings the most receipts but feels the least convincing from him, who clearly is coming to terms himself with the concept.

It's littered with pop-culture references that are on point, but taken together, they carbon-date him even before he states his own age. By the time he reveals that he was 22 in 1988, your response is, of course you were.

It felt like being cornered at a cocktail party with an earnest elder scholar from the East Coast who has …

Mae Marvel: Everyone I Kissed Since You Got Famous (EBook, 2024, St. Martin's Griffin)

Katie Price is known in every living room in America. A small-town Wisconsin girl who …

Katie slid one side of the shirt back, just enough, shuddering when the placket grazed her nipple, then pulled it back into place.

Everyone I Kissed Since You Got Famous by  (30%)

new vocabulary: placket

an opening or slit in a garment covering fastenings or for access to a pocket or the flap of fabric under such an opening

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Anton Chekhov: Five Great Short Stories (Paperback, 1990, Dover)

Anton Pavlovich Chekhov (1860–1904), a Russian physician, short-story writer, and playwright, wrote hundreds of stories …

Two or three good stories and a couple of head-scratchers

Chekhov is revered, and I'm sure he wrote many wonderful, compelling things. But the title of this book is a misnomer. I'd say that three were worthwhile, though perhaps all three had endings that left me wanting. And the other two were meh, at best. So maybe read some Chekhov, just not this particular collection.

Mae Marvel: Everyone I Kissed Since You Got Famous (EBook, 2024, St. Martin's Griffin)

Katie Price is known in every living room in America. A small-town Wisconsin girl who …

Everyone I Kissed Since You Got Famous is starting off so damn well! Romance with smart women (even the minor characters are smart). They use their words. They're setting up the stakes as "is minor TikTok influencer willing to blow up her life for famous Hollywood star". Stakes that make me believe in the characters rather than get frustrated by them.

commented on The In Crowd by Charlotte Vassell (Detective Inspector Caius Beauchamp, #2)

Charlotte Vassell: The In Crowd (Hardcover, 2024, Doubleday) No rating

In the garden of a large Georgian villa in Southwest London, socialites and politicos swap …

I've now completed a list of the winners of the Edgar Allan Poe Award for Best Novel, including this 2025 winner. As always, editions on the list on SFBA.club have good covers & descriptions; your mileage may vary on other servers.

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Matt Baume: Hi Honey, I'm Homo! (2023, BenBella Books)

There's a secret storyline hidden across some of the most popular sitcoms of the 20th …

Great rundown of queer history through tv sitcoms.

This was a rather fascinating dive into tv sitcom history, queer history, and how modern media has been able to help sway public perceptions. I didn't watch the referenced shows growing up, so it was really interesting to see how show creators and actors were able to toe the line to get what was considered controversial material onto the air. It also gives you a little hope with how tumultuous things are in the world right now by showing that it's really not a new trend at all and was honestly expected. If you're at all interested in tv history helping the main population to be more accepting of queer folks, this would be a great read.

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Samuel I. Schwartz, William Rosen: Street Smart (Hardcover, 2015, PublicAffairs)

On a Saturday morning in December 1973, a section of New York’s West Side Highway …

An excellent book about how transportation policy had become so car-centric, and ways that we are moving away from that. What I liked most in the book were Schwartz's stories about his time as traffic commissioner in New York City, including his initial push to get congestion pricing implemented in New York City, which was not implemented at the time of writing, but is now, (and it only took fifteen years to get through!). I also really liked his story of how they got a new stadium built with minimal parking and made it work by placing it next to a metro stop and giving attendees free access to the metro along with their ticket. Schwartz also talks about the future of transportation in this book, which is kind of fun, but more speculative.

Kij Johnson: Ponies (EBook, 2010, Tor.com)

If you want to be friends with The Other Girls, you're going to have to …

Nebula Award winning short story

First published at Tor.com as an online read and EPUB download, Tor now formally publishes it through ebook retailers.

Ponies here have wings, a horn and can talk. An allegory on what happens when people give things up to fit in.